I am NOT saying the effort is a bad thing, or not worth it,
It’s not that we shouldn’t celebrate or be proud of achievements but, when we use achievements as a means of proofs of worth – we are defining worth based on our enemies definition. (yes. enemy.)
When we say “my life is not a tragedy because of this or that,”
automatically they can say, well plenty of people cannot do this or that so your experience doesn’t matter.
That manner of rebuttal/argument is often unintentionally agreeing to a definition of worth which is utter bullshit n the first place.
I wont play this game.